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What does RSVP mean?

Please reply. It is French, répondez s’il vous plaît. On an invitation it means the host wants to know whether you are coming, so they know how many to expect.

What RSVP stands for

RSVP is short for répondez s’il vous plaît, French for please reply. The host is asking you to say whether you are coming. It does not mean the answer is yes, and it does not mean you are expected. Yes and no are both answers.

The letters are usually written without full stops now. R.S.V.P. and RSVP are the same thing.

How to reply

Say whether you are coming and how many of you there will be, by the date on the invitation.

  • Yes, we will be there. Two of us. Thank you for having us.
  • I am sorry, I cannot make the 25th. Have a lovely evening.
  • Can I tell you by Friday? I am waiting on a shift rota.

Reply the way the invitation came. If it came by text, text back. If it has a link, use the link. If there is a date to reply by, reply before it. If there is not, reply within a few days. Somebody is waiting on your answer to book a table or buy the food.

The other lines on the invitation

RSVP by 14 May
Say yes or no before that day. The host needs the number after it.
Regrets only
Reply only if you are not coming. Silence counts as yes.
RSVP to Anna
Reply to that person, not to the whole group.
Plus one, or and guest
You may bring someone. Say who.
Kindly respond
The same request, said formally.

If you do not know yet

Say so, and give a day. “I will know by Friday” is an answer the host can plan around. Silence is not. If Friday comes and you still do not know, tell them you cannot make it.

If you are the one asking

Put the day to reply by on the invitation, and say how to reply. If you want the answers in one place instead of scattered across your inbox, send a link.

Next: a link to send. You can change the details later.

You get a link to send. The answers come back to one list, and you see who is coming. No account, no ads. More about the RSVP link.

Questions

Does RSVP mean yes?
No. It means reply. Yes and no are both answers, and the host needs either one.
What does RSVP stand for in English?
Please reply. The French is répondez s'il vous plaît.
How do you say it?
Letter by letter: R, S, V, P. Nobody says the French out loud.
Is it rude not to RSVP?
A little. The host is counting chairs and portions on your answer. A short no is kinder than no reply.
Can I RSVP by text?
If the invitation came by text, yes. Reply the way you were asked.
Do I RSVP if I am not going?
Yes. That is the answer the host most needs, and the one people most often skip.
What is an RSVP link?
A web address where you answer with a click instead of writing back. The host sees everyone's answers in one place. Make one.

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